One year of my second life … And roughly the 27th of my first one.
Eh, go figure. One year ago Petros was rezzed (born) in Second Life. The fact that it was actually my already 3rd avatar doesn’t change one very crucial factor: it was with Petros that I discovered what Second Life is.
It didn’t happen immediately, though I created him to, in a way, be a extension of my real self, and thus I started to do some un-newbie things with him… But it didn’t last long and RL contingencies made him fade in to what looked like an eternum oblivion…
Then 2008 come and with it my official unemployment and hordes of free time… Being the geek and reclusive person I tend do be, computer games sounded good enough to entertain me while I was not looking for a job. Eh, soon enough, Second Life caught my attention again… It could have been a short lived return, but on the very first day of my (re)return I incidently met my first lover in SL and my first SL job.
I got hooked before I knew.
I started making friends (not just contacts), I started woring and getting linden bucks without camping, I started to love through my avatar and I rent my very first (virtual) property. I was on a high. For a few weeks my first life become my second one…
Eh… Maybe it was too much, but it was probably important to experience that in that stage of my life as well… Just like any another piece of my life coming in to place in the big puzzle of it.
Eventually things changed.
Old friends vanished, new ones were made. My inventory grew, my house got furnished, memories made, dreams shared…
I found a new job along the way. One in SL, and then quickly one in RL.
My romance ended… But Petros endured. Maybe wiser, maybe more conscious, maybe…
Then RL started to take its toll on SL. “first life comes first” we always say… Eh, yeah right… Then why do we want so eagerly to return home? I’m side-tracking now…
Anyway… Life, the second one, moved on (as well as the first one). Two jobs, a place to call home, friends and confidants, some drama, cool clothes, an identity and lindens to spare… And before I could properly rez what was coming my way, Summer arrived and a new and unexpected relationship was born out of all the wondrous coincidences that make life such a funny play to read. And here I am now. Happy, tired, richer, smiling. I have no idea what another year will bring me but… It will be unexpected for sure.
In our island now we stand together and I feel wiser with all that SL as teach me as a person, as a lover, as a friend, as a intimate confident, as an explorer, as a community member… I have seen what Second Life can be… The good and the bad… Just like first life… Only maybe at a fasten pace.
In the process of learning more about others, I got to know myself from the eyes of others… And that was truly amazing.
Thank you, to all whom have contributed to me growing up a little more in this year that went by.
See ya all next year
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